Ringing The Devil’s Doorbell: A Light-Hearted, Practical Guide

Let’s talk sex! Vulvar and vaginal stimulation for fun, pleasure, and profit.

Fingers buried in a grapefruit by Taras Chernus, via Pexels.

Content note: this is a reference guide for the stimulation of the vulva and vagina.

Throughout this piece there is in-depth discussion of sex and sexual practice, there are diagrams, and there are photographs of vulvas to aid our learning and understanding, not to mention a lot of terribly suggestive fruit.

Contents

Preface

The Anatomy of the Vulva and Vagina: the actual anatomy of the vulva, it and the vagina’s attendant parts, and how everything fits together

On Testosterone: the effects of testosterone as a HRT treatment on the vulva and vagina in the context of sexual pleasure

(I don’t have any specific advice in regards to different intersex configurations or further genital and hormonal diversity, but that section might nonetheless be semi-relevant; there’s also some notes on vaginal atrophy that might be relevant if you’re menopausal or similar)

Stimulating the Vulva and Vagina: ringing the Devil’s doorbell, dancing about in his vestibule, and then running into (then out of) (then into) (then out o — ) his house

Additional Reading: more resources and links

Preface

First, just a note that I’m a transgender man who has not undergone any bottom surgery. This guide is intended primarily for trans and nonbinary people who were assigned female at birth and have not undergone bottom surgeries, especially who are on testosterone hormone treatments, and also for cisgender women and other people with vulvas and vaginas.

As a gay man I have no experience with neovaginas or any surgically constructed vulvas post-penectomy and similar, and if you do I would absolutely encourage you to add in your own tips and comments, or write your own guide with more info in that regard!

Much of this stuff will still be applicable as every vulva and vagina is different, and there’s a huge diversity of experiences with surgery, whether that’s post-metoidioplasty or post-vaginoplasty, or after any…